It happens all the time: you meet a girl who is perfect for you, only to discover that she already has a partner. It may seem hopeless, but there is a way to approach the situation tactfully, and it is as simple as talking about your relationship. Assess your situation, be respectful until you get to the appointment and talk to her about her relationship with you.
If you already feel comfortable enough to ask if she is dating, ask her how serious her relationship is, but don't choose this option if you want to keep your intentions secret. You can guess her motives if you ask her directly, casually asking: "Do you wonder if she has a partner? Ask her how she feels about him and, if so, how "serious" their relationship has been. If she doesn't, you can ask her more casually, like, "Dating?You may know immediately where the conversation is going, but be careful: if it's just a slingshot, she might still be interested in seeing you. If you are serious, it can be harder to ask her if she is, and you may have to ask specifically if there is a relationship between her and her boyfriend, or even her current boyfriend.
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